Two years ago, my brother-in-law Sheldon drowned.
How does a person begin to describe that kind of loss?
Sheldon was quirky (remember the donkey mask?), funny, energetic, good with kids, and underneath all the energy was a gentle, serving, dreaming heart.
That last year, Sheldon was becoming one of Will’s best friends. He was intensely loyal, often telling Will in the face of opposition, “Will, I’ve got your back!”
Sheldon had tremendous potential as a valiant soldier in God’s kingdom. I don’t know how to reconcile that with the fact that he is gone.
I can imagine him living Heaven to the hilt. Who knows what kind of adventures God is mapping out for him?
Meanwhile, we cry on our crumbling bit of earth.
I expected grief over a lost family member to be deep, but still cleansing, like when you have a good cry then feel washed out and peaceful. Grief is deep, but to me it does not feel cleansing. Just yucky, yucky, yucky.
Sheldon, where are you? You feel so very far away.
The night after Sheldon died, I had a dream. In my dream, I saw Sheldon standing in the morning light, alive and happy. His face was radiant. I shouted, “Sheldon!” and ran up to him and gave him a big hug. He laughed and hugged me back.
Sheldon, you are so far away. Yet, maybe you are near, just on the other side of our darkness.
We miss you, and we love you. We are waiting for the morning.
Weeping may tarry for the night,
but joy comes with the morning.
Psalm 30:5 (ESV)
Will you pray for Louisa, Sheldon’s sweetheart, today?